Wednesday, September 14, 2011


2011...the gone and going-ons






after much deliberation, I decided to pen this down for my own reference



there's too many turn of events that i'm afraid i'll forget some of them



the thing is, i don't want to forget



some events are worth remembering, worth reminiscing for my own keepsake :)



all events occured are nothing but to 'maturise' me. hahaha got such thing meh...maturise?






okay let's start. let me assure myself...this is going to be one lengthy entry i believe



i am going to start with October or was it November 2010? hhmm....see, i'm forgetting details already...



anyhow, sometime in the last quarter of 2010 last year, he broke news to me that his job application at ICA (which he applied eons ago) had caught the attention of the HR. Hence, he was offered an ICA Specialist post. I was happy and apprehensive at the same time.



He, on the other hand had happy-ness written all over his face. He had been wanting to make a home-run after a year of his Bintan stint.



so he accepted the offer all right, got to keep his Sergeant ranking, with a substantial pay-cut to boot but all the sugary treats a statboard could offer in the long run



i remain positive. i tried my very best. we looked into areas which we could cut and save.


he decided to let go of the car....oh my Sunny SFW587G. My loyal companion. :(


attachments to all things worldly, Jeejik? seriously....get a grip of yourself lah Bazila.


tapi kan, tapi kan...tu bukan attachment tao, itu convenience. heheeh.


takperlah, it's replaceable. just a matter of time *self hypnotise mode*


happy thoughts, happy thoughts i tell myself



though at times, i can't help but to have all kinds of negative thoughts haunting me (Syaitan playing its whisper games on me)



Syukur Alhamdulillah, he is a patient man



that much i can say



i better stop playing the devil's advocate or i'm going to lose more than i bargain for



things are more or less kind of settled down now



In any matter, in any situation - say thanks to Allah


i realise i am not thankful enough for all the things i'm given and will continue to receive


I seek your forgiveness Ya Allah. Astaghfirullah hal adzhim.



at least we are sheltered



there's still food on the table, nice clothes to wear, time for leisure, laughter and joy



he is still the same husband, responsible, working hard for the family



change is inevitable anyway


and carless we have been for 9 months and counting. still, we're happy as a bee!



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so the 1st quarter was hard but not the hardest lah. surviving 12 weeks without contribution from the other half was a challenge.



letting go of the car was the best decision it seems. but not when it comes to Hari Raya! Renting one is a darn hassle lah!



how did we get thru it eh? Looking back, I seriously don't have a clue but we got over that, miraculously. Yey! Walhamdulillah



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moving forward, things begun to ease towards the 2nd quarter of two-oh-one-one. :)



a travel buff that i am, kiddos and i managed to take a ride to Pahang (Bukit Gambang Resort City) with Abg Ngah and family. a brief stopover at Teluk Cempedak was a breathtaking experience. I love the serenity of the open sea. Kids had a good time picking shell by the shore. Waves at Teluk Cempedak were quite rough, not suitable for swimming though.



Hubby couldn't join us due to his work schedule.



thereafter in May, right after kiddos mid-year exam, we flew to Sarawak. Yes! Just the 4 of us!



5days and 4 awesome nights in a the spacious Riverside Majestic hotel room, a day of sun-soaking time at the uninhabited Pulau Satang (private trip which I arranged with the owner of the island, an island trip i never regret), a visit to the Bidayuh Longhouse, Sarawak Cultural Village, good food, good movies (Nur Kasih, Karak, Kungfu Panda 2,) Sepilok orang utan rehabilition centre, good food..heheh.



just having an amazing good time with the family



so happy to see the kids' happy, appreciative faces



May also saw a good friend of mine performing Umrah for the 1st time



Kak Lyn and her loving parents set off a day after we returned from Sarawak. i took leave to see them off at the airport. :)



then in June, on the same day that Kak Lynn and her parents returned from Umrah, i had a short trip to KL with the rest of the family members for a wedding. i managed to do some hari raya shopping for the man, his son and daughter. hehehe



if all the above is not what I called blessings, i don't know what kind of person i am lah dei!!



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3rd quarter of this year was the most exciting, yet! For the 1st time, I visited North Asia - Korea, The Land of The Morning Calm with nephew Khai, his friend Jackson, Kak Lynn and Busu Banun - 3 ahjummas and 2 dongsaengs. hahahaah....strange combo indeed.



10days 8nights all-girls experience....awesome.



upon reaching Incheon airport 2 hours before midnight and Arex ride with the 5 of us, the bujangs and mak daras had to part ways. we alighted at Gimpo Airport - part of our continued journey to Jeju Island at the south. while the bujangs continued their journey east to Daegu



what evolved next was nothing short of a thrilling and gerek experience ever. something which a group of teenagers would say FUN, Da bomb experience.



now, it never occured to us girl, or at least to me, Gimpo airport was totally the opposite of Incheon.



while the latter, being South Korea's international airport was always bursting with life, bustling with the arrivals and departures 24/7, the former is the total wacky opposite.



totally devoid of all human activities at night, the airport is as good as unoperational.



Gimpo Airport closes at night! didn't know when the last airport activity ceased at Gimpo but when we reached there at almost midnite, airport's light was off, dark and quiet...the graveyard quiet kind. we were in twilight zone. kahkahkah



we should have stayed at incheon airport and checked ourselves in a jimjilbang and make our way to Gimpo airport the next morning to catch our 7.30pm flight to Jeju



but, considering the distance from Incheon to Gimpo and the early morning flight we had to catch, we thought it safer to just slack and rot @ Gimpo. and so....slack and rot we did at Gimpo!!! kahkahakhaa......gerek ke per?! here's the rundown of all the happenings at Gimpo



1) found a gerek spot to call it a night at the corner of an arrival hall, near the restrooms



2) was truly exhilirated when the toilet flush comes with the auto-clean-you-know-what system. hahaah, ghairah gitu!



3) managed to clean ourselves up a bit (janji tak bau tengek tahap melampao dah kira ok lah tu), took our wudhu' and did our maghrib and isya' jamaa' at the corner which we've chosen to be the best spot for us the 3 ahjummas. konon. :)



4) even managed to have a simple dinner of cup noodles which we brought all the way from our country, filled up with the water dispenser located all around the airport, very convenient...Korea airports are cool)



5) experience kener halau by the ahjusshis!



while gorging down on our noodles coupled with sometimes loud giggles from us 3, we couldn't help but got noticed by 2 airport security guards. we were asked to leave the premise asap. we pleaded for 5mins grace - wanted to finish our noodles first...buying time. :)



6) not long after that, the same ahjusshi came to ask for our passports. we obliged. Busu told him in staggered English that we are from Singapore, tourists heading to Jeju Island on a 1st morning flight..yadi yada yada. i think he took pity on us and soon after relocated us to another spot in the airport itself where he could keep a watchful eyes on the 3 mak daras. hehe



thank God we didn't end up sleeping outside the airport!



7) and so that was where and how we spent our 1st night in Seoul, Korea - The Land of the Airport, oops Morning Calm.



*giggles*



2days spent at Jeju Island was insufficient. gotto make a comeback visit, with kiddos next time InsyaAllah



























Wednesday, September 14, 2011



she need not be a ballerina

she need not be a pianist

she need not be a genius

she need not be a famous star


she just needs to be a good practising Muslimah

that is it

O Allah, only You know what's etched deep in my heart

O Allah, please guide my children well

let them stray not, lead them into your essence of light

Ameen Yaa Rabb Ameen
Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Tuesday, September 13, 2011


Assalamu'alaikum wr wb. tak jawab dosa....heheh


it's Syawal the 15 today and i have decided to end my raya visiting or so i hoped


seriously speaking from my thoughts, i am truly exhausted


exhausted over what i don't know....you might want to question and then mock me on my claim of exhaustion cos for the 1st time ever, mak and i didn't cook all the hari raya dishes this year


our sambal goreng pengantin, rendang daging were prepared and cooked by Shereen's Kitchen - a nice lady whom i've just got acquainted with on FB


though i didn't get to sample all her dishes prior, i went with my gut feelings and instinct on the notion that kalau kita niat baik, pulangannya pun tetap baik-baik aja, insyaAllah


Alhamdulillah, Shereen's Kitchen never disappoints!


on top of that, kan memang my motto - there's always 1st time for everything, never try never know wat.... :)


i also ordered sambal tumis udang this time with ketupat too


however, my kitchen tak lah totally tak berasap you....mak esah still cooked her signature kuah kacang and small pot of sayur lodeh and i whipped up 6kg of ayam debal (devil's curry). the latter couldn't last....since it's kiddos favorite, they don't savour any other except for ayam debal - ayam debal pagi, ayam debal petang, ayam debal malam


itu ajer yang jowang bedal hari-hari


macam ni, 6kilo ayam pun memang not enough!




but this year, i did spend a wholesome time in the kitchen - baking with heiress


i managed to come up with a number of hari raya cookies -


suji oats


honey cornflakes


chocolate cornflakes macaroon


makmur


cheese biscuits (ni tak berapa menjadi sangat, probably too much flour added so tak crunchy like i would have expected)


oreo balls




moi also did cakes! - kek batik & tapak kuda nutella


i guess that's where all my energy was channelled to. i think.


this year syawal also sees a lot of positive changes in my heiress


she has become more rajin in helping around the house, especially when there are guests


dia lah yang top-up kuih muih, serve drinks, collects and wash the dishes


senyum sipu-sipu macam kerang wangi bila di puji...tu lah anak dara tiang para ku.


ok lah, me nak solat asar and then prepare to head home


to be continued.....maklom, dah lama tak menaip suka hati riang ria kat sini


kekadang rindu itu menerpa jugak


lol.










Tuesday, September 13, 2011

HER ROYAL HIGHNESS .


A Woman Contented

Seeking Allah

Lives by the motto: "There's always a first time to everything. Never try, Never know!

Loves Life, Loves Him and His Mesenger Most

Her soulmate, Her Zuriat, Her family and her friends is her ticket to Jannah

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